Entrusting a third party to help you bring your baby into the world can bring feelings of uncertainty. As you begin researching information about surrogacy and looking for a surrogate of your own, it may benefit you to know some important qualities of a reliable surrogate mother.
With your list of requirements in hand, you can proceed with confidence as you compare your options and make a final decision.
Health and responsibility
Perhaps the most important quality of a surrogate mother is good physical, mental and emotional health. According to the Centers for Disease Control and Prevention, in vitro fertilization will proceed implantation of the embryo into your surrogate’s womb. These complex procedures and the accompanying pregnancy will require a lot of time, patience and physical sacrifice for your surrogate.
Finding a surrogate mother who has received critical immunizations, does not have any infectious diseases and has a clean bill of health may better facilitate the growth and development of your baby. You will also want your surrogate to exhibit responsible behavior and abstain from alcohol, drugs and other harmful substances throughout the duration of her pregnancy.
Communication and intelligence
Getting your baby here will require the adjoined effort of your health care team, your surrogate mother, you and your partner, and the support of your family and friends. You will need to communicate regularly with your surrogate to stay informed of your baby’s health and development. You will want a surrogate who understands the importance of communication and agrees to work closely with you throughout the pregnancy.
Your surrogate should also possess intelligence and an understanding of the processes and procedures that will follow. This includes any legal obligations to ensure your baby gets to you and your spouse without any unfounded disagreements.